Open Up

Open Up: A Handbook That Helps 10 to 12-Year-Olds Talk Sex with Parents by Dr. Victorine Mbong Shu is a compassionate and engaging guide designed to bridge the communication gap between pre-teens and their parents on the sensitive topic of sex and sexuality. Written with love and care, this book addresses the curious, shy, and sometimes rebellious nature of 10 to 12-year-olds as they navigate feelings, thoughts, and questions about their changing bodies and relationships.

Dr. Mbong Shu, a renowned family communication expert with a Ph.D. in Family Sexuality Communication, provides real-life stories, affirmations, interactive activities, and vibrant illustrations to make the journey of understanding both relatable and fun. The book empowers children to ask essential questions like “What’s happening to my body?” and “How do I talk to my parents?” while guiding parents and caregivers to provide culturally relevant, honest, and supportive answers.

Perfect for families seeking to foster healthy communication, Open Up encourages respect for boundaries, cultural values, and the big one—sex and sexuality. Whether you’re a parent looking to support your child or a pre-teen eager to understand more, this handbook is your friendly conversation starter. Let’s open up together and make these discussions a natural part of growth and connection!